Do your thoughts determine how you age? The answer is “Yes” according to Professor Ellen Langer. During the last forty-five years, this Harvard social psychologist has studied the way our mindset affects both our health and how we age. At the core of her work is unifying the mind and the body rather than how the conventional medical and psychological world typically treats each as separate. Langer is convinced that a unity offers a far better understanding and hope for making positive change. Fortunately, her studies provide us with plenty of science to back up her assertions.
For those who may not have read last week’s blog post, Ellen Langer teaches in the Psychology Department at Harvard University and is the first woman ever tenured there. She is the author of eleven published books and over 200 articles. Of all her work, the one titled Counterclockwise is the most influential and gets to the heart of her ideas about the mind/body connection.
Counterclockwise asks the question: Can you remember who you were and how you felt 20 years ago? And if yes, how might that influence your body and mind today? With those questions in mind, Langer and her students recruited two groups of older senior men in their late 70’s to early 80s. Back in 1979, this was when 80 really meant 80—so these guys were truly old. None of these men lived alone making them dependent on either a family member or a nursing home facility. Many walked with a cane and all needed a support system for the majority of their needs.
Before the study began each man was carefully tested for what was considered to be biomarkers for age at that time—everything from memory and cognition, to flexibility, dexterity, grip strength, and of course their hearing and vision. Even their mental state was recorded.
Then Langer divided the 16 men into two groups and at separate times took them to a retreat center that had been carefully replicated to look exactly as it would have 20 years earlier—1959. Everything in the retreat center was meticulously designed to ensure that nothing in the house appeared older than 1959; the black and white television in the living area, the appliances in the kitchen, and the magazines on the coffee tables. All records in the record player came from 1959 or earlier, and all the TV programs and movies came from that earlier period. Mirrors were removed and only clothing of the era was allowed.
Each man was told in advance that they would be part of a study, but not that the study had anything to do with aging. It was explained to the first group that their mission was to reminisce about the past. In contrast, the primary group was instructed to act as if it was actually 1959 in every way. They were encouraged to psychologically attempt to be the person they were 20 years earlier. They were also coached to only talk about events and happenings that had occurred in the world or to them, prior to 1959.
Also important was the fact that both groups were treated as though they were 20 years younger. They were required to carry their own luggage, help with dinner and cleanup, and make up their own rooms.
When the study concluded, they again tested all the men. Surprisingly, both groups of men (the control group and the primary group) registered noticeable improvement in some areas including hearing, vision, and memory. But, showing even more improvement were those in the primary group who also registered greater flexibility, faster gait, greater manual dexterity (where their fingers actually lengthened in spite of arthritis), and improved posture. Sixty-three percent of them scored higher on intelligence.
Also of note was the fact that although they had arrived extremely dependent upon either family or institutions to manage their needs, each man began functioning independently almost immediately upon arrival. Photos taken prior to the study and at the end, showing a visual difference. Independent observers rated the seniors, although still senior, as looking somewhat younger and more vibrant.
The results were so astounding that Langer hesitated to publish the outcome at the time, believing that she would not be taken seriously as a scientist if she did. However, ever since that time her research has continued to root out the numerous ways that our mindsets and thoughts influence our bodies.
The next study by Langer also confirmed the mind/body connection. Called the Chambermaid Study, this research shows that after hotel maids were educated to see how their daily actions could be perceived as healthy exercise—and with doing nothing different than just believing their work was indeed exercise—they lost weight, and their BMI and blood pressure improved. In other words, what people believe about their work and how they perceive exercise is connected to how their body responds.
Langer and her team then went on to study memory in a group of nursing home residents. First, everyone was given a memory test. Then ½ of the residents were asked to pay mindful attention to certain things in their home. To encourage that action they were offered incentives to recall certain things and events when asked. As Langer says, “Because they wanted the gifts, the information we asked them to track now mattered to them.”
After a three-week period they found that “when remembering mattered, memory improved.” But that wasn’t the only benefit, those offered incentives and instructed to be more mindful also became more cognitively aware—they paid better attention to other people around them, their rooms, and the nurses—and even increased their longevity in the years following the study.
Langer also reminds us of other research that demonstrates how our use of certain words has the power to “prime” us. After reading words associated with being old and aged, looking at photos of older people or items associated with advanced age, or doing tasks that focus us on what our society thinks it means to be older, we can prime ourselves so that our bodies respond in a slower and more limited fashion. Everything from the speed of our movements, to our eyesight, memory, and cognitive awareness can be affected.
And what about time? In one study Langer showed that when people are fooled into believing they didn’t get enough sleep, they did worse on memory tests. When they were fooled into believing they received more sleep than they actually did—they scored better. In addition, tests about blood glucose levels being affected by perceived time are also relevant. When subjects believed that time was faster than normal, their blood sugar spiked accordingly. When time was “slowed down,” the blood sugar responded in kind.
These, and nearly all of the studies done by Langer and her students demonstrate that if you can effectively change the mindset or perception of a person, you can often influence some of the physical responses in the person as well. This applies to the health of the individual, as well as how they age. One of Langer’s most well-known students, psychologist Beccy Levy, along with her colleagues claimed after a study, that “those who viewed aging more positively lived, on average, seven and a half years longer than those who were negative.” Other research titled the Berlin Aging Study “found that dissatisfaction with aging was one of the principle factors in how long people live.” Again, if we can adjust our mindset, we can influence our body in more ways than we normally realize.
Fortunately, as Langer asks, “if our beliefs have influence on our well-being, surely we can learn to influence our beliefs?” Of course, fundamental to that idea is that we must be willing to believe we have some control over our own health. How can we do that? Here are several things Langer believes is crucial:
- First, we must be mindful or aware of the world around us as much as possible. Langer recommends, “Pay attention to what is new.”
- Notice differences and variables instead of loss or decrements. Just because something changes doesn’t make it bad or wrong.
- Recognize that the world is designed by younger people with different capabilities—but rather than seeing lost capabilities as a physical problem—choose to see them as a design issue.
- Realize everything is contextual. Sometimes just changing the context opens up a world of possibility.
- Refuse to be merely a number or statistic. We are all unique and that includes what is happening to us on a physical level as well.
- Get second (or third) opinions on anything related to your health or important decisions—and then stay mindful and open about the answers.
- Refuse to be labeled—especially in a way that limits you or “primes” you to believe you can’t do something.
- Counteract negative stereotypes for aging or health. Refuse to be boxed in. “Change the game.”
- Stop associating pain or disability with age. Seek other explanations for what is happening and understand that issues can happen at most any age.
- Refused to be “over-helped.” Helplessness and dependence interfere with both our mental state and often our physical state as well.
As Langer says, “our attitudes, ideas, and beliefs are at least as important to health as our diets and our doctors.” Yet many of us continue to believe the stereotypes of aging or health conditions as one of decline, decay, and inevitable loss. Langer goes on to say, “Our mindless decisions—our deference to doctors’ opinions, our willingness to accept diagnoses, even the way we talk about our illnesses—can have drastic effects on our physical well-being.” For those of us who want to age in a positive and healthy way, it is SMART to remember how much our mindset plays in the process.
As an older adult, I run 40+ miles, do yoga, and strength train six days a week. All too often I find myself asking my peers who said they were too old to exercise. This study helped to confirm my belief that the reason so many older adults feel old is because they are not exercising. Exercising helps to keep me feeling vibrant and young. I also encourage older adults to modify their language to say they are making a transition from one opportunity to another and avoid using the word retirement. All the folks I know who embrace the concept of retirement look forward to getting older, dealing with medical problems and ultimately death. Life if for living.
As a professor who will be 68 in August, I just spoke with a textbook rep who demonstrated an interactive game for students on lifespan development. She previewed the older adulthood section, and all of the characters were in some way either physically or mentally incapacitated. Like the negative stereotypes that society portrays of adolescents, I informed her that I would not be using this game if the models for older adults were portrayed in a negative way. I guess I could have told that at 68 I could probably run circles around her, but I do believe that we must stand up and speak out every time we are presented with these negative images
Hi Rebecca! Good for you for insisting that older adults be treated with as much respect as anyone at any age. Like you said, the only way we will ever reverse the trend is for more of us to be outspoken and point out ageism wherever we find it. Thank you for your comment and keep up the good work! ~Kathy
Since I officially became a senior citizen this year, I find well researched articles on healthy aging wonderfully thought provoking and encouraging. My own health is excellent at this point, but I do notice a few more aches and pains. Reading this reminds me that those aches may be more a result of decreased activity than deteriorating tissues. Time to walk the dog and climb some hills! I’ve also noticed that my attention span is not quite what it used to be, but I have decided that is actually due to spending way too much time quickly scrolling through topics online rather than sitting with a good thought provoking book or article and actually taking the time to soak that in. The best way to keep moving is to keep moving. The best way to keep remembering is to keep remembering. Yes, genuine health issues may crop up but, as you indicated, an old mindset is the most powerful of aging factors. Sixty-five isn’t what it used to be! Thank you for sharing.
Hi Lynda! Thanks for your thoughts on this. And yes, isn’t it true that we are so conditioned to thinking that “aches and pains” come as we age that we often don’t even question what other causes might lead to it. I was having aching in my hips the other night during sleep for a couple of nights and then I finally made the connection that I had been sitting in a very hard chair to watch tv in our new location during those nights. My body didn’t like it and it had nothing to do with my age. And I love how you said, “the best way to keep moving is to keep moving.” May all of us who want to age in a positive way remember that. Thanks for your comment. ~Kathy
Those studies really point out the power of the mind. How we choose to view ourselves our situations, and others influences how we feel. I think too often we tell ourselves that “we can’t” – and, funny thing, that makes it so. Thank you for sharing this powerful information.
Hi Janis! Thank you! You know this is a big theme for me–and even though I write about it all the time (and I’ve seen stuff like it on your site) I think it is good to keep reminding each other–especially in the area of aging. Cuz yeah, it’s happening to us all! Since I started reading and writing about positive aging the last couple of years I am actually excited and eager for all the wonderful things that we can experience in the years ahead. They are not a given though. We have to keep our intention strong–and I will do my best to keep reminding myself and everyone else along the way. ~Kathy
The older I become, the more I am convinced that how you think governs everything about your life—your health, your relationships, your money, etc. On one level, it helps to know this, since it is evident that we are not powerless. On another level, people have a huge struggle with the idea of thoughts controlling your life. They don’t like the responsibility, and tend to think that people are blaming them for their own problems!
Hi Diane! Yes, I do think it becomes apparent to many of us as life goes on…but like you said, some people don’t WANT the responsibility of it. I’m definitely the opposite. I’d much rather take the responsibility and then be empowered by the ability to bring about at least some change in the process. But I get that’s me and not everyone. Still, those of us who understand it need to keep reminding each other of it over and over right? ~Kathy
Like you, I absolutely believe that our attitudes, ideas, and beliefs are crucial to our health and how we age. If only my knee would agree!
Hi Tom! Ha! Just think of the condition of your knees if you weren’t reasonably optimistic about them??? And I think the proper attitude leads us to do things that are helpful even if they don’t lead to a “cure.” My father-in-law was a mechanic for most of his life and on his knees a LOT. By age 70 he desperately needed knee surgery but refused to get it. Eventually, he had to use a wheel chair and then was bedridden. Not good. Instead of optimistically doing the surgery he gave up. As you say, our attitudes matter! ~Kathy
Working on my mindset and wow: “when remembering mattered, memory improved—and even increased their longevity in the years following the study.” I am working on counteracting negative stereotypes for aging or health. Good stuff as usual Kathy!
Hi Gary! Yes, isn’t that quote interesting. Langer makes a big point of saying that so many of us toss around the idea that our “memory isn’t what it used to be” that we make it often a self-fulfilling prophacy. Instead, her studies show (and there are more of them in her books) that show that our memory like so many other things, does change and fluctuate through the years, but we don’t have to see it as a detriment. Also, when it’s important, we can remember very well. Think of our former friend Dr. Tom and how he remembered EVERYONE”S name for years and years. I think he did it because it really mattered to him. Let’s keep remembering THAT! ~Kathy
Great article Kathy!!! Thank you for all of the helpful information.
Hi Ann! I think this is the first comment you’ve ever made here on the blog. Thank you. I’m really glad you liked this one! ~Kathy
What an interesting body of study! Thanks Kathy for hi-lighting it. I agree 100% on the point about medical health diagnosis. In my opinion too many people take what the doctor says as final and not unique to them. Doctors have to go on the averages. Most people are not going to change their diet or lifestyle so a pill is the easier way to control a disease. If you tell your doctor, I will change and I am willing to change let’s evaluate in 6 months, doctors are more than happy to let you give it a go.
How many times have we all seen or heard of a man who’s wife waited on him and she passed away and low and behold he is able to do for himself quite nicely! Or the widow who’s controlling husband drove her everywhere, did all the banking and shopping and now that he is gone she is out driving herself and having the time of her life!
Hi Haralee! Thank you. I know that not everyone who has health challenges wants to hear that they can be involved in their own healing…like you say so many just want to go to the doctor and be immediately “fixed” without having to make changes. When I’m confronted with a health issue I like to see it as a new direction of learning that shows up in my life and then do whatever I can to make changes. Sure it sucks having to deal with health challenges but fighting them or wishing they would disappear is rather pointless don’t you think? And I think it is exactly the same with aging. We either see it as an ongoing learning and growing experience or let it beat us down with trying to keep it from happening. I personally am very happy to know I can do things to make it better! ~Kathy
Wow! What fabulous information, Kathy! How incredible the mind really is, isn’t it. We know this, but seeing it in these studies just reinforces all the points. I love, love this. Thank you!
Hi Susan! I’m glad to see that I’m not the only one who is fascinated by these types of studies. I am so grateful for the people who take the time and effort to study things that can affect us on such a deep level. And like I said in the post last week, Ellen Langer is a very interesting woman herself with a lifetime of work in areas that I appreciate. Thanks as always for your comment. ~Kathy