Several years ago I wrote a novel entitled Finding Grace.  I’d always wanted to write a novel and am quite pleased and proud to have written the type of book I love to read.  One of the major characters is an older woman who serves as a life-long mentor to a much younger Grace.  I named the elder woman Mrs. Pettermint, with a few quirks to make her interesting.  Throughout the book, this wise woman offers her perspective on everything from love, to life, and to healing.  And while she didn’t specifically mention Christmas or any of the other holidays celebrated this season, I can easily imagine what she might suggest.  Here are five pieces of advice I can almost hear her say to Grace and anyone else who wants to listen. [Read more…]